* Christine Riddick, Neville Riddick
* 10 Jan: LJ A to NCR Request for Visit
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From: Lara Johnson <firstname.lastname@example.org>
Date: Fri, 10 Jan 2020 11:08:59 +0200
Subject: NCR Req for Visit
To: Christine Riddick <email@example.com>, Neville Riddick <firstname.lastname@example.org>
TO: Christine and Neville Riddick
Christine Riddick (email@example.com); Neville Riddick (firstname.lastname@example.org)
LJ A to NCR Req for Visit.
I received your request to visit at 16:00 hrs today.
I have no problem with you visiting.
I suggest that the discussion be tape recorded.
If that’s okay, I have a small tape recorder that I used with Pila. We used to tape our discussions, listen to them again, to teach ourselves to actively listen.
It helps to focus the conversation: Put differently it helps to focus all parties to sincerely and actively listen and hopefully confirm the accuracy of their interpretations of each others statements [Edwin Rutsch: Empathy aka Active Listening Circle: 9 min]; before responding, thus helping to avoid further misinterpretation misunderstandings.
Once you have been accused of mental disorders, you will understand. Your credibility is destroyed in any ‘he said, she said’ verbal dispute. Verbal conversations that are not recorded and don’t include active listening are like potential IED minefields, in a credibility warzone.
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